Having Christmas Every Day

This Christmas, many of us will have ventured out into stores to purchase gifts for our families and friends, and we may have also made a charitable contribution to one of our many worthy local causes or purchased gifts for a family in need through a program like the one at Bridges of Hope. Yes, Christmas is a time for giving, sharing and receiving.

You are probably well aware that malls, department stores, boutiques and other local businesses are very busy this time of year, but one that may not immediately come to mind is the thrift stores. Common Goods is one such place bustling with activity during the Holiday season, and it’s a great spot to shop for your holiday gifts and decorations.

The employees are helpful and very knowledgeable about what is in the store, and if you are looking for something they don’t have, they can probably refer you to another place in town that carries it.  They also upcycle some of the donated merchandise–sometimes even remaking an item into something else entirely! Some of the staff have even been around since the store opened in 2009.

One of them is Jenny. To Jenny, Common Goods is not just a place to shop, a place to donate, or a place to volunteer (although those are all great things themselves!); it’s that whatever is done at Common Goods is helping Bridges of Hope and the community. In 2009, Jenny started out working for Common Goods through our local Workforce Center, and she was soon hired on as a regular staff. Jenny loves knowing that her work benefits families in the community who are in need. She also loves meeting the variety of people who come in both to shop and to volunteer–and for the opportunity to pass on the message of helping others to her own family; one of her sons comes in to volunteer every week during the summer months. The staff at Common Goods have the blessing and opportunity to work at a place that is mission-driven and impacting the community for good.

Christmas for Jenny means a time of family togetherness, a time for giving and sharing, and or course a time to remember the True meaning of the Holiday. She sees Bridges of Hope bringing light to dark situations where parents would otherwise have to choose between paying bills or buying Christmas gifts for their children.

Common Goods StaffBut it doesn’t end at Christmas–because receiving donations from the community is like having Christmas every day! Jenny loves the fact that her work at Common Goods goes to provide help for families all year, since Bridges of Hope utilizes the profits of Common Goods to support their work with families. For Jenny, work is less about the “job” and more about the community she is serving in and the meaningful relationships she has developed with coworkers and volunteers. Helping make a difference is what motivates her every day.

From the staff at both Common Goods and Bridges of Hope Human Services, thank you for your gifts of time, talents and treasures that make Common Goods such a success–you have helped make our Christmas brighter this year!


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We Did It…Because of YOU

This has been an incredible year at Bridges of Hope, where we have been blessed with a multitude of gifts as well as a handful of challenges. We are thankful for both, as we are reminded daily to both be gracious and thankful to Him during good times, and persevere and turn to Him during the difficult times. It reminds us that no matter how well we may plan and prepare, life happens anyway–both in our personal lives and in the lives of the clients we are so privileged to serve at Bridges of Hope.

Noah and his mom

You've Supported Families Like Noah's

Over the past two months, our financial supporters answered the call to come alongside our work with families in the Lakes Area. As I write this, I am humbled and amazed to report that YOU were a part of a record-breaking Fall Campaign at Bridges of Hope: over $60,000 has been contributed to meet our goal and close our year-end funding gap. Our donors are truly amazing!

This has also been a record-breaking year in terms of how many families reached out to Bridges of Hope. Thanks to you, our faithful supporters, over 2,300 households have been served at Bridges of Hope so far this year. That means 1,480 households received vital support for essentials like food, shelter & staying warm; 190 parents were supported to improve their parenting skills or care for their mental health; 290 children had a safe place to stay when their parents needed a break or to attend to a family crisis; 530 households received Christmas gifts and holiday meals; and many, many other households were assisted with a variety of needs through our flexible & unique services.

As I reflect on 2011 and look forward to all 2012 will bring, I am so thankful for all that this organization has been blessed with: a strong staff & Board of Directors, faithful shoppers & volunteers at Common Goods, and supporters like you who have given generously of your time, talent & prayer support. I want to thank you again for all these ways you help us build Bridges!

Have a very Merry Christmas and a blessed New Year.


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Campaign Nears the $60,000 Mark

On Saturday, December 10, Bridges of Hope’s Fall Campaign reached the $50,000 mark, leaving just $10,000 to raise before year-end…which means that on the following Thursday (December 15), Nor-Son was able to add the back rail of our bridge…

…and that means the bridge is also nearly complete!

Back Rail of the Bridge

We continue to be in a state of humbled amazement of YOUR continued, generous support of our work with families.


Thank you for giving. Here’s how you can still get involved this year:

Read Noah’s Story.

Learn more about our bridge project.

Make a gift to support families in need.

Having an Upcycled Christmas

So my extended family has this somewhat quirky (although not completely unique to us) tradition of celebrating Thanksgiving and Christmas together. Yep–on the same day. We start with Thanksgiving Dinner, have a little down time to clean up dishes and let the food settle, and then jump right back in to Christmas by late afternoon, complete with a tree, presents for the children, and a gift exchange game for the adults…and of course, another meal…as if one wasn’t enough!

I have to admit that it’s kind of nice, celebrating two holidays at once. It can also be fairly exhausting, like this year, when I was tricked (yes, tricked) into acting as Team Leader in a post-Thanksgiving-full-afternoon Gingerbread Decorating Contest. (I do happen to think we ended up with the best gingerbread house, but that of course is beside the point.)

This dual-holiday tradition started with my grandmother, when my mother and her sisters were teenagers, and it has persisted since then…growing as our family has grown. This year there were nearly 40 people there, representing four generations and even three different countries!

But I haven’t even gotten to the pinnacle event of the day: the gift exchange among the adults. We call it simply, “The Game.” The rules are as follows: anyone age 18 and over is welcome to participate. The host site for the year chooses the theme–and both the host and the theme are generally selected right after The Game concludes the previous year. If necessary, there is a short decision-making period allowed of the host, but there begin to be more than a few sideways glances if the theme is not chosen within about a two-week period following the Thankgiving-Christmas celebration.

The gift chosen by a participant must relate (in some way) to the theme. My husband, for example, thinks it’s hilarious to bring venison every year and make a case for it somehow fitting that year’s theme. At the actual event, the adults place all gifts in the center of the room and play a variation of a “stealing” game (again, exact details are determined by the host), where gifts previously opened by one participant are snatched away by a later participant…only to be claimed again by a still later participant. Clearly it is to one’s advantage to be the last name called. The Game is played in fun, with plenty of raucousness; and for my family, it has also helped to remove the sometimes-awkwardness (and added expense!) of multiple gift purchases for extended family–especially for newer members just getting to know everyone.

We have had many, many themes over the years: a Hollywood Christmas, a Recycled Christmas, a Handmade Christmas (not to be confused with Homemade, mind you–that was a different year), a Patriotic Christmas, That 70s Christmas, a White Christmas, an International Christmas, and so on. This year, our theme was Old Fashioned, which lent itself well to finding a gift that has been previously “loved.” Happening to know a place where previously loved treasures gain a second life, I went directly to Common Goods in search of something that had been “upcycled.”

Upcycled Cradle

If you’re not familiar with the concept, the creative minds at Common Goods have become masters at repurposing some of the items that have been donated to the store–reimagining them as something different, and remaking them into something new, something UPcycled.

Table & Chairs Before


Table & Chairs Afterward

...and After

If you’ve never been inside the store, it’s totally worth a visit. But fair warning: you might have to come often, since the upcycled items often leave in the hands of a delighted customer almost as quickly as they appear! In my case, I didn’t find an upcycled treasure that day…but I DID find a fabulous hand-crank ice cream maker, made all the more popular during The Game because we had actually made and eaten homemade icecream earlier that afternoon (although I nearly missed it, since I was elbow-deep in gingerbread and icing). It went through several rounds of stealing, including from myself (oh yeah, another one of the rules is that it’s okay to steal your own gift back). I didn’t win it in the end, but I think my cousin went home very happy that day.

Hand-crank Ice Cream Maker

Next year, our theme is to be a Rustic Northland Christmas. Hmm…I wonder if those snowshoes I saw at Common Goods the other day are still there….


Learn more about supporting Bridges of Hope by shopping, donating and volunteering at Common Goods.

Not Having to Choose Between Gifts or Rent

Christmas can be a difficult time of year for some of the families working with Bridges of Hope. Often, families have to make tough financial choices, which might mean choosing between giving their children Christmas gifts or providing for their everyday needs.

Naturally we want to support families who are making the tough decisions to keep paying for things like their monthly housing and heating costs…even when it means sacrificing on Christmas gifts for their family. That’s one of the reasons Bridges of Hope coordinates the Christmas Gift Program. This program matches families in need with local sponsors who purchase gifts for children in need. Carly, our student intern, recently posted about this program (read more).

Sponsors help alleviate some of the stress for families around the holiday season–helping ensure that parents can focus on paying their regular household bills but are still able to see smiles on their children’s faces on Christmas morning around the tree.

I’d like to share with you one of thank you cards I received from a family served by the Christmas Gift Program last year:

To: All Staff & Associates of Bridges of Hope

I don’t know where to begin exactly… I applied for your program because as a single parent of four children I was really struggling to make it this year. I was devastated because it was so close to Christmas and me and my kids were forced out of our home on the 20th of December. [With] no house & very few gifts, I didn’t know what to do. [Then] I got a phone call from [name omitted for confidentiality] asking questions about my children and me. I learned they had adopted my family for Christmas through your program. What a blessing we received because of Bridges of Hope. Christmas morning was all smiles here. You are so appreciated and are included in daily prayers for your continued support to those in need in our community. Thank you for your kindness.

~A Very Thankful Family

Bridges of Hope would like to extend a big thank you to our wonderful Christmas sponsors that help make stories like this happen. Because of you, over 160 families will have a brighter Christmas this year. We currently have approximately 50 families awaiting sponsorship: learn how to become a sponsor here. Thank you for making a difference.